It is true that body and mind cannot be seperated.
Yes, we definitely seek these dramas for reasons that we do not fully understand, but at least we know are associated with our childhood. Wouldn't it be good if we were much more skilful at creating good learning dramas in our own lives than we are at creating painful lessons. The good news is that some of us survive and we grow milder, kinder as we age in spite of the harshness of life's lessons. We all need to forgive the 'enfant terible' that we were and celebrate what we have become! It is funny how religion attaches so much guilt to us celebrating our own good qualities. Why should we be constantly beating our breast. I think the quality of joy is underated by religion.
I am not too sure what you are saying about the eye programming.